Whatever you do, go bigger.
No but seriously, my Nitto ATs on my F250 wore like garbage- to the point where I had the option of getting some cash back for mileage warranty. I love those tires but the tread life made it totally not worth it. I sold it with them on.
As far as resale, it depends on where you are. You can't get $100 for a new spare once it touches the ground in Indiana, but in Colorado they're "nearly new" price half worn- at least that's what people are asking. Do a little craigslist search and price accordingly, if they don't get any interest, knock them down. Budget offroaders looking to up size will be your best customer. Regardless I think it's worth it to resell them if they have life- someone will want them.
I've still got Nitto ATs on the van, waiting to see the wear/life. I went with Toyo ATs on my little pickup, but it's in the featherweight class so doesn't really compare to the van.