Yes I checked the GFI and all outlets have power from the Xantrex, but not from shore power. Didn't know about the breaker reset.
Also I called Sportsmobile and after suggesting checking the 3 relays and the GFI said "Call Xantrex it should be under warranty."
Then I remembered that I'd spent a day rewiring the house and that nearly none of the outlets were grounded, and that the Garage was still on my to do list.
Sure enough the garage where the SMB is plugged in was not grounded. After about 2Â½ hours of messing with some truely jacked up wiring I gave up and plugged it in through the kitchen window, to a properly grounded outlet.
*BAM* Charging! So that was it, the Xantrex won't charge or power the outlets from shore if the outlet isn't grounded properly.