I agree with 1der on the solar controller, can't go wrong with Victron. Outside of their panels, i am not impressed by Renogy. These i
nline MC4 fuse holders work great for fusing panels. The out fuse will ultimately be decided by the controller, they should have a recommendation on size, I would go with a
MAXI fuse & holder or
MIDI fuse & holder
I have not yet found a make your own SAE connector & crimper. You of course can butt-joint their adapters. They also make enough already made SAE to whatever, you should be able to find already made. I would do the extension in segments, (SAE to MC4) that way if the long length is not needed you don't need to deploy, if needed just add a extension (SAE to SAE)
Good choice on the panels, Sunpower continues to rule on efficiency, and are also the best for shading. Looks like a good package.
For deployment, if the goal is to bring the battery to full charge, I generally try to maximize the charge to get it through the bulk phase and into the absorption phase as quickly as possible. The bulk phase is the only phase when you can pretty much use the full current capacity of the panels. Once you reach absorption you will start a tapered charge, but it is key to have enough power to maintain this phase. . It all really depends on the depth of discharge of the battery. Obviously if panels orientated in morning and afternoon position can fully charge the battery you are better off, because catching more afternoon power will limit the discharge for the next day.
-greg