...so I removed the driver's seat and looked under the carpet....
As MG mentioned above, I have a two pin connector on the same harness that goes to the seat belt retractor/pyro....a round black one terminated with a dummy cover. It has a dark green wire and a black wire; according to the wiring diagram for 2008, it's always on 12V power for the seat.
Here is the connector with the dummy cover removed...
...and here is the connector on the power seat....
...so they are different.....will not mate....
I looked up the van harness P/N for the 2011 (which the seats are supposed to be out of) and it's the same P/N as the one I have, so there is information that I'm still lacking...