Soooo… did some more work: replaced the rear u joint and found the diff has some degree of free tilt. Once I find out how and where to upload a video I do so.
BUT: found something else.
I replaced my slip yoke with the one I got from the junk yard and now checked my old one again. I see scratches on the first ~25mm corresponding to the 25mm in my old extension housing bushing (copper layer was already fully gone in that area).
The other problem is that the bushing itself is ~40mm. Means I‘m missing at least 0.5“ in length after my 3“ rear lift. That means I don‘t have the designed „bearing area“ + I only transfer torque on 2/3 of the area!
So if I don‘t solve this permanently I guess I will have to do it again and again.
My idea is to get a driveshaft spacer. Axle relocation plates will not really provide the movement I need.
Anyone an idea where to get a 3/4“ spacer?