As much as I wanted to trust my internet research, I just couldn't so I pulled my axleshafts out today.
The Dana/Spicer part numbers are stamped on the end of the axles.
Driver's side (Dana/Spicer #43811-17) measured 37.64" from the inside of the flange to the end of the splines.
Passenger side (Dana/Spicer #43811-16) measured 34.92" from the inside of the flange to the end of the splines.
Bolt circle is 8 on 3.96" with 0.45" holes (7/16" bolts) and 4.72" O.D. flange.
I ordered those exact lengths/ flanges but with 1.5" diameter (stock spindle I.D. is 1.585") 35 spline axles from Dutchman Motorsports
http://www.dutchmanaxles.com/flanged-fl ... -pair.html Cost was $305 + shipping for the 1541H material or $345 for 4140 (I ordered the 1541H) and they said they would ship out Monday or Tuesday.
Hopefully this saves someone a headache in the future.