I'm now at the radio battery switch stage of my conversion and this thread has been a big help. Didn't want to write anything till I got my version built, installed and tested which I have just now finished.
I've set mine up so there is a singe SPDT momentary switch that selects either house or van(starter) batteries as the power source. Once switched the radio runs totally off the source selected. The radio doesn't lose it's setting when switching between the two sources. I was worried about that but guess it just happens fast enough that the radio doesn't lose it memory.
To do the actual switching I'm using two 12 volt relays. These relays are rated for 16amp. They are dual coil latching type. Since they are latching, no power is required to keep them in the selected position. That saves power usage and it's why I only need a momentary switch. I bought them for $4.66 each from Digikey.
Here's the link.
Here's the guts of the thing.
To protect the circuit board I found a near perfectly sized holder.
When the van is sitting and not running the radio is dark. If I flip the switch to "House" the radio lights up now being powered by the house battery. It will stay powered from the house battery until I either flip the switch to "Van" or start the van. When I start the engine the radio automatically switches back to the van battery. That way I don't have to worry about switching the radio back to van and since it's a momentary switch I can never leave it in the wrong position. A rather bad habit of mine.
Here's the diode I use to stop switch selected coil voltage from back feeding to the starting circuit.
After I got everything wired up it actually worked the first time. Surprised the hell outta' me. I'd wired up House and Van backwards on the switch but that's easy to fix. Just rotate the switch 180 degrees.