The 4-pin you found looks to be the heavy duty trailer tow circuit, which will have aux battery charge, reverse, and trailer brakes. The pigtail that continues after should continue to your 4-pin flat that may be taped into the bumper or at the frame horn.
Just for the sake of completeness:
Rear bumper lights work.
The Rigid lamps from UJOR have a red halo and white mid LED. The white one is a) imo too bright to be used as regular position light and b) the regular „4pin adapter“ doesn‘t include reverse: means I didn‘t connect it.
The halo now works as additional brake light and turn signal as planned.