Hi DoubbleVan2 -
Yup, Twoxentrix is the bomb!
Destructive testing pictures below..Had fun (kinda)...time consuming!
Pictures below of the Home Depot material for you; it's not the same as our ceiling and is 3/16ths, not 1/8".
I did a simple pull test with the SMB/Field fasteners...Suprisingly*(!) got to some 25 lbs before the screws pulled out of the fiberboard...so my working assumption is it's not a pull-out problem per se but a wiggle problem from use; wiggle, fiberboard degrades, and then the screws pull out.
Also of note, even though our build is only 3 years old, we have camped in it over 50% of the time so some 600 days of almost always pulling down the insulator/reflector curtains to attenuate heat and cold; a lotta use for a short time.
And the rear ones are failing more...the guess here is we lean over and pull on an angle (causing a "wiggle") where the fronts we have easier access to and tend to pull straight down.
I haven't decided yet...leaning toward using screws again in conjunction with VHB tape and 1/4" hard wood...and yup, I'm overthinking it...got the wood...screws, and snaps are coming from McMaster car on Tues...gunna test this.
I was able to test the ceiling material because we took the larger section of the Penthouse bed out of the truck, took the bed foam off the smaller section, and used the smaller section for clothes storage in compression packing cubes; no bed foam, so space for the cubes with the top is down.
So - - I have the large section of the bed that we don't use and cut out a piece of the 1/8" laminate-covered fiberboard that looks to be one in the same material as the Penthouse ceiling that the curtains are screwed into.
The photos below are of the experiments...and yup, it's 1/8" fiberboard...easily damaged and doesn't take a screw well as you can see in the pictures.
Also did a test of the VHB tape on raw hardwood because 3M says to "seal the wood" and wanted to see how it held up without sealing...some 75 lbs and didn't let go...even on a right angle pull...and tested to see if I could get it apart with a razor blade...yup...came right apart after slicing from both sides.
https://photos.app.goo.gl/JQksWhMrTjAV7PxQA