The chair is mounted and I think “safe enough”! I definitely recommend doing exactly what CarringB has been suggesting for this job: if you already have bosses in place, get a tap for the size bolt you want to use (in my case the factory M12 for the rear bolts and M10 for the front ones – these sizes are also in use likewise on the driver side as of factory) and carefully wind it into the existing holes that make the bosses. (CarringB, feel free to correct my terminology if I am abusing it.)
I did not know that taps exist, nor that they are so affordable and easy to use as manual hand tools. Maybe you can even find someone willing to simply put the threads in your bosses or lend you their tap tool, because it’s such a quick job.
What I did:
Rear bolts on seat mount – I recycled the T55 head M12 bolts that were used to mount the van’s passenger benches at factory, used the tap to put nice threads in the booses (see picture with tap tool and threads in bosses), pulled the bolt tight from above, and put an M12 nut (grade 8 or higher) on the protruding bolt from the underside. This was very quick and pain-less and I recommend the same procedure for the front.
Front bolts on seat mount – unfortunately, I got hung up on the rivnut idea too quickly and drilled 14mm holes through the front bosses as this size was needed for the rivnut inserts. Thereby I passed on the opportunity of using a tap tool since it needs a diameter very close to the eventual screw diameter (inquire with Fasternal/Napa or the internet about the correct diameter). Rivnuts seem to be malleable (as the way of installing them relies on deformation of the insert) and they do protrude just like it was said here in this thread. My solution: I cut rivnut inserts down to the eventual desired size, crimped them into the hole using the rivnut tool, put grade 8 or higher M10 bolts on with washers from the top side, and attached 3/8’’ steel blocks with washers and nuts form the under-side.
All bolts were fully tightened (switching between bolts several times for even tightening) from the top side first, before fully tightening from the bottoms side. I still need to put a nut on the rear left bolt (facing direction of travel) of the seat mount which I wasn’t able to find on the underside last night.
Thanks again for all you help and insight in this thread!
I attached some pictures of the result below, feel free to comment & criticize. I learned a lot thanks to you all on this project!
P.s. I got the tap from Fasternal for $17.50 and the handle from Harborfreight for $19.