Well, I spent the better part of 3 hours late last night going through my wiring and testing various scenarios( I really should have made my wiring panel easier to access
). In the end, after isolating it from everything, using another battery, and even plugging into AC (again) I removed the fridge from 12v entirely and left it plugged in to an AC extension cord (I've done this before so many times!!), it took about 30 minutes but it started exhibiting the ramp-up/down even while just on AC.
I called truck fridge today and they said it could be the controller and/or thermostat and were sending me replacement parts.
I appreciate everyone's input, and honestly feel like I wasted some of your time. I will post an update once I swap the parts.